It’s okay to ask for help. Really.

Here’s a surprise:  You can’t do it all.
(And even if you could, why would you want to?!?)

Asking for help doesn’t make you helpless or weak or not a tough guy/gal.
Allowing other people to assist and perhaps teach you, can open your life to new ways of doing things.
And create time to focus on the people and activities than give your life meaning.
Accepting help will relieve some of the pressure and stress around making your home and life
look and feel comfortable, and supportive to you.

Whether it is someone else doing the vacuuming, finding a parenting class, 
asking for a referral for a good therapist, 
or requesting your family members to put away their own laundry:
Asking for help gives you more space and time in your own life.

Your universe is available to help and support you.  
Go ahead.