KarenJane
Honor your commitments.
If you said you’ll be there at ten o’clock, be there at ten.
If you said you’d get back to someone, return the call.
If you said you could help, show up and do the work.
If you value a cause, lend your support.
If it’s important to you, make the time.
Honestly, no one is really interested in your excuses.
You are your results.
If you want different outcomes, change your actions.
Commit to the activities, people and causes that reflect your values, dreams and heartfelt connections.
Anything less is unworthy of you.
Your life, your choices.
Karen
Simple Options
Keep the options simple.
Sometimes having more options and more choices makes us think we will arrive at the perfect solution or we’ll make the ideal choice.
However, the more options, the more time we spend in selecting and the more we second guess our choices.
Too many options can leave us feeling overwhelmed, and make us feel insignificant choices have greater weight and importance than they really do.
We find ourselves in “analysis paralysis”, instead of getting on with the activities and adventures in life that are truly important to us.
When filing papers (most of which you know you’ll never look at again) keep the categories general.
Buy the same colored towels for all the bathrooms.
Find products you like and consistently use them.
Keep like things together so you only have to look in one place to find them.
Don’t let trying to find the perfect solution keep you stuck.
Trust me, imperfection is okay. In fact it’s quite comfortable.
Keeping it simple, makes it easier.
It doesn’t always have to be hard to be good.
Choose to make your life easy.
This week’s idea. Just admit it.
You’re never going to wear that sweater your mom gave you for your birthday-five years ago.
You’ll never need plates and flatware for 20 people at once.
Your in line skate days are far behind you.
You don’t even still have the laptop/toaster oven/printer that go with the boxes you’ve been saving, just in case.
The three computers in the garage are merely holding down the cement.
You don’t need five different old jeans, baggy tee shirts or holey pull overs for paint clothes.
All those free, sample, give aways might be small, but they’re still cluttering up the drawer.
Be honest with yourself.
Let some of it go.
That was then. This is now.
Open up some room and some space in your home and life.
It’s time.
Your life-your choices.
Karen
No is a complete sentence.
Even though we’re often tempted to follow it with an apology, explanation, justification or a promise of yes in the future.
Mindfully saying no reduces the physical, mental and emotional clutter in our lives.
We only have a limited amount of energy, time and enthusiasm.
Saying no establishes boundaries, creates limits and reminds us that we’re in charge of our choices.
Despites no’s reputation as a negative, it can in fact act as a positive reminder; helping us make conscious decisions about much energy to devote to a project, how much time we’ll spend on a relationship, and where our own best interests should keep our attention.
Choosing to say no, setting limits, and being conscious of how we spend our time and energy simplifies our lives.
Oh, it isn’t necessary to stomp your foot while saying no-but it might be fun to do it in your mind…..
Your life-your choices.
Karen
Theory meets practical application.
Staying clutter free is an ongoing practice.
The more frequently you practice the easier and more routine the actions become.
After the initial sorting, purging and finding smart and effective homes for things comes the maintaining part.
Practice the Two Minute Rule. (if you can do something in two minutes or less, do it now)
Keep Justin Case from moving his things into your drawers and closets. (I’ll keep this, Just In Case)
Put things away. (instead of just putting them down)
Sort the daily mail. (Action, Read, File)
Pay attention.
Do a little bit everyday.
Make the systems as simple as possible.
Remind yourself which activities you love to spend time engaged in.
Choose the people you want to make time for in your life.
Let go of the stuff and make connections.
Make choices that support your most heartfelt life.
Karen
Some? A few? None?
Some? A few? None?
“Uncluttering isn’t about having the fewest things, it’s about having the right amount of things for your life.
Clutter is any distraction that gets in the way of the life you desire — and sometimes, having too few things can be just as distracting as having too many.
As you are going through the uncluttering process, remember that there isn’t a competition to see who can have the fewest things. The purpose of uncluttering is to right-size your possessions and commitments so that you can focus on what matters to you most.”
Erin Doland Unclutterer
It’s all about choices.
Only you know how much is enough for you to live the life you really want.
Choose wisely.
Karen
Give Memories, not things.
Give memories, not things.
Your Dad probably has enough stuff of his own without you adding to the collection.
Consider gifts that can be used up.
Treat him to a service he wouldn’t buy for himself.
Give a gift that is literally outside the box. (or gift bag…)
Take him on a trip in the Way Back Machine and revisit a place or activity from your childhood.
Treat him to a private lesson from the pro at the golf course, arrange to have someone mow his lawn for a month, have his car detailed, rent him the car he’s always wanted to drive, ask him to help you with a project.
Maybe give him a list of five foods you associate with him, five sayings that bring him to mind, five childhood vacation moments that still make you laugh and five things about yourself you’d like him to know.
As a bonus for giving your Dad an Uncluttered Father’s Day present, give yourself the gift of letting go of not so great father child memory that you’ve been holding on to. That was then, this is now.
You get to choose what you give.
Choose from your heart.
Karen
Pie, Humble that is…….
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This week’s idea: Say you’re sorry so you won’t be.
Let your heart guide your choices.
All of them.
Karen
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Keep it simple. Make it easy
Keep it simple. Make it easy.
The easier you make the system the more likely you are to comply.
The fewer the steps, the more likely you are to complete the task.
Limiting the options makes choosing easier,
Use hooks instead of hangers.
File in broad general categories,
Always have a donation bag in the laundry room.
Sort the mail over the recycle bin.
Put your keys in the same place, everyday.
Pay your bills on line.
Don’t put something down, put it away.
Say no; without guilt or explanations.
Move on.
Make the mechanics of daily living as simple and effortless as possible.
Put your energy into the relationships and activities that matter most to you.
Choose from your heart.
Karen
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